The Exact Affirmations I Used to Attract My SP Back
If you’ve ever stared at your ceiling reciting affirmations like a mantra, hoping it’ll shift the energy between you and your specific person, I’ve been there. The fear, the doubt, the obsessive checking… it’s real. And yet, something inside you knows this person is meant to return. Not out of desperation, but because the bond feels deeper than logic.
That’s what brought me here, and what eventually brought them back.
Why Most Affirmations Don’t Work
Most people approach affirmations like a script. They repeat them over and over, but nothing shifts because the energy behind the words hasn’t changed. You can’t affirm “They love me” while secretly spiraling in fear that they’ve moved on. Your nervous system knows the difference.
For me, affirmations didn’t start working until I paired them with inner stillness and self-honesty. I had to get out of the loop of trying to make them come back, and instead anchor into why I was worthy of their return in the first place.
What Changed for Me
I stopped using affirmations to convince myself they were thinking about me. Instead, I used them to stabilize myself. To remind me of who I was when I felt safe, chosen, and calm. I’d repeat them right after meditation, on walks, or when I noticed I was starting to spiral.
The goal wasn’t to force the 3D to change. It was to become the version of me they always felt pulled toward.
That’s when things started shifting fast.
The Exact Affirmations I Used
Here are the ones that grounded me, and eventually, helped pull them back:
“They still feel me, even in silence.”
“Our connection is too real to be forgotten.”
“I’m the safest love they’ve ever known.”
“Every version of them is coming home to me.”
“I’m not chasing them. I’m remembering they’re already mine.”
“Love always finds its way back to alignment.”
“They’re waking up to what we are.”
These weren’t about “making” them come back. They were about becoming magnetic to the version of them that does.
How to Know It’s Working
You’ll start to notice subtle shifts. You won’t check your phone as often. You’ll feel less desperate and more grounded. Random signs might pop up, dreams, old memories resurfacing, or mutual friends reaching out.
But more importantly, you’ll feel like yourself again. Not the version of you obsessed with the outcome… the one who knows they’re chosen even in the dark.
That’s when it clicks. That’s when the pullback begins.
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